“I’m In Love With My Neighbor, But He Won’t Offer Anything beyond sex

I’m 23 years old and I have a 3 year old daughter. I’ve been with the father of my child for 10 years and he has been incarcerated for the past 3 years, set to be released in June of next year.

The thing is I’ve been sleeping with my next door neighbor for a year and I’m in love with him. He also has a 5 year old daughter and our kids play together. When we first met he told me that he was not interested in a serious relationship and was no longer with the mother of his child and I believed him. A few months later I found out that they were still a couple and were living together but when I asked him if this was true he denied it. He then came clean and said that they were working things out for the sake of their child and that he still wants to casually sleep with me.

He has said on many occasions that he doesn’t want me seeing anyone else but he knows that I will be with the father of my child when he gets out. We still plan on sneaking around when my boyfriend gets home but I want more from him. The way I feel for him I’ve never felt for anyone else – not even the father of my child but he just won’t commit to me and I can’t trust him.

Recently at a party I got into a confrontation with his girlfriend because they were making out in front of me and I felt disrespected because he saw that I was there and acted like he didn’t care. He vowed to never speak to me after that incident but that was because the bi*ch was there. A week later he was at my door and we’re now sleeping together again. It seems like he’s never going to leave her alone and I just can’t continue seeing him if he doesn’t but I don’t know how to let go because I really love him. Should I stay and hope that he changes or just leave him alone?

-Melody

What do you all think?

Credit..Gistmania

Founder Of MMM Makes An Important Message

A fresh communique issued from the stable of the Russian founder of MMM, Serge Mavrodi has addressed the seeming malicious reports about the Ponzi Scheme in the media as well as other alleged disparaging financial analyses by economic experts in Nigeria.

A statement credited to the face of the Mavrodi Mundial Moneybox – Serge Mavrodi has been addressed to Nigerian journalists and other financial experts reporting the rumoured crash of the wonder bank which froze the accounts of members till the 13th of January, 2016 over suspicious reasons of heavy financial withdrawals against the yuletide and purported intimidation from the media.
 
In the stinking message titled “Appeal to Journalists from Sergey Mavrodi” and disseminated from the official Facebook page of MMM Nigeria, Mavrodi takes a swipe at news reporters over their coverage of the Ponzi Scheme that has orchestrated a national panic among its 3 million members in Nigeria.
 
He assured troubled subscribers of the full operation of the money-doubling initiative at the stipulated date in January, 2017 after the yuletide.
 
Meanwhile, GISTMANIA couldn’t ascertain as at press time if the press release was directly from the Russian ex-convict, Mavrodi.

Appeal to Journalists from Sergey Mavrodi

Read Below:

Dear journalists, “analysts” and all kinds of “experts”!
 
Please stop using MMM to gain cheap popularity. Leave us alone and let us work without interference. I’m just astonished by your irresponsibility and cynical attitude. Interests of millions of people, your fellow citizens are at stake. Don’t you have any sympathy for them? Why are you fueling hysteria around MMM and provoking a panic? Why are you doing this so diligently and persistently, what is your purpose?
 
In fact, absolutely all your provocative and worthless articles and “analyses” (I said “worthless” because you do not have any real information about what happens in the System, and might have never had; you simply invent everything, fabricate it) are merely negative: “MMM has collapsed!!!.. MMM will not be working in January!!!..” etc. Are you intentionally presenting all of it in such a manner and whipping up tension by any means possible in order to increase the ratings of your publications and attract attention to them? Don’t you care about people at all?
 
So, nothing has collapsed, and MMM will safely resume its work in January, as announced. Suspension of work for holidays is a usual thing, merely working moment, no more than that. It would have remained a normal, just a part of the usual routine, and might have gone almost unnoticed if it were not for your totally cynical and irresponsible attempts to advertise yourself, create a scandal out of nowhere, and make the most of this news topic in any possible way.
 
Again, leave MMM alone and let us work. Nothing has collapsed, and MMM will perfectly resume its work in January. We Can Change the World!

Man arrested for stealing two kids says he lured them with sweets and fried yam (photo)

A suspect who was recently arrested for trafficking two young children, revealed how he somehow managed to lure them away by offering them sweets and fried yam.

According to reports, the man identified as Rolan Egbe, had stolen the children from their parents and handed them over to one of his friends Uche, who ended up selling the children off to two women identified as Chioma Ohajimadu and Mrs. Comfort Ogbonnaya who reside at No. 69, Osusu road, Aba.

Marvellous Heart being returned to his parents after being trafficked
Trying to defend himself, Egbe who claims to be a ticket seller at Oyigbo, River state, said Uche had introduced him to trafficking. He said:

“One evening, about two weeks ago, I went to eat at Oyigbo roundabout, Uche started calling me repeatedly to get the child he told me to bring. But I told him that I know the parents of the child I wanted to bring to him and I don’t want to hurt them. However, he insisted that I should bring the child. After speaking with him, I asked him to come around and wait for me. Then I went to where the children normally gather to play around the area because the little boy, Marvellous Heart, normally comes to me each time I am around his mother’s shop.

When he saw me that evening, he ran to me and l bought sweets for him; from there, I carried him and met Uche, who was waiting for me at a distance. That was how we took the boy to Aba. He gave me N50,000 only and promised to pay me the balance later. After some days, the woman that bought the boy started calling me to complain that she doesn’t want the boy again, that we should bring another child for her. That was how Uche forced me to go and steal another child for the woman.

The second time, I saw some children around a spot where they sell fried yam around Imo River and bought some fried yam for them. When I was leaving, I left with one of them.”

Sharing his own side of the story, Mr Shedrach Heart, the father of the boy, said the incident was reported to the Obehie police station after which he had gone to church for prayers and had gotten the assurance that his child would be returned to him alive. He said:

“Roland has been our family friend, any time he comes around to play lotto around my wife’s shop, my child normally runs to him and the two of them will stay together until he leaves. On that fateful day, my boy ran to him and he carried him to buy something for him. From there, he took him away.”

Confessing to her crime, Chioma Ohajimadu who adopted the stolen children, said she indulged in the act because she couldn’t afford to go through normal adoption processes to get a child. She said:

“I’m a widow with a son of about 17-years-old. But I needed another baby in my family. The Uche in question was my primary school student.When we met at Aba, he told me he works with the motherless baby’s home and I informed him that I needed to adopt a baby and I have gone round, but the price they were giving me was exorbitant.

He promised to help me out since he works with them. So, about two weeks ago, on the 18th of November, he called to inform me that he has got the baby for me. He brought the boy to my house with Roland. I spent one night with the baby and found out that he was too rough for my liking. So, I called him to come and take the baby and get another one that will be calm for me. But he said he can’t take back the boy again, that he finished the registration of his adoption at the motherless baby’s home.

That was why I called a woman that works at another motherless baby’s home and asked her if she knows of any woman that needs a child and she said yes and asked her to bring the woman to take the boy they brought for me because I don’t want him again. She asked me to bring the child and she then invited Comfort Ogbonnaya to take the boy, it was in the process of adopting the second baby that I was arrested by the police.”

While parading the suspects at the police officers mess in Umuahia, the Abia state Commissioner of Police, Mr. Adeleye Oyebade, said Egbe had earlier been arrested for child trafficking on December 7, before the stolen boy was recovered by men of the Special Anti-Robbery squad. He also went ahead to advice parents to monitor their children closely especially in this festive period.

Pastor helps woman give birth after she was thrown out of a bus while in labour.

Why would anyone want to mistreat a pregnant woman, especially when she is in labor?

The pregnant woman cradling her baby
A Kenyan pastor had to participate in bringing a child into the world after a pregnant woman in labor suffered a crmuel fate.

According to reports from edaily, the pregnant woman had boarded a bus (matatu) but was thrown out of the bus because she was in labor. Luckily for her, Pastor David Mwangi Mburu of the Christian Faith and Hope Ministry in Maragua, Murang’a County, Kenya, was on hand to help her birth her baby alongside some other women who had gathered, right there on the road.

Pastor Mburu helped a pregnant woman deliver her baby

Pastor Mburu had successfully delivered the woman of her baby girl even as the women who gathered looked on. He said:

“It is totally unacceptable for public transport workers to callously throw out a passenger in such a manner. When they were asking her to board the matatu, they knew she was pregnant.”

According to an eyewitness, here’s what happened:

“I was traveling in the same matatu with the expectant woman when she said she was experiencing labour pains. After the matatu crew ejected her from the vehicle, myself and other women alighted and offered to help her deliver the baby. Their actions were really cruel, given the woman had already told them that her destination was Kano Hospital. Modesty calls for taking the expectant woman to the hospital, given her condition, before continuing with the journey.”

It is good to be our brother’s keeper.

By Naij.com

Muma Gee Responds To Husband’s Cheating Accusations

Earlier this week, Nollywood actor Prince Eke who is married to songstress Muma Gee, had accused her of abandoning her marriage and their three children.

Muma Gee said she was only doing her work in Abuja
Pouring out his heart in an emotional outburst on his Instagram page, Prince Eke accused his wife of fleeing to Abuja to frolick with different men, abandoning her three children, even when one is a less than four-months-old baby.

He had even gone ahead to address himself as ‘a single father of three lovely kids’, attracting the public to his plight.

Even though he has since deleted the post, it had already gone viral and Muma Gee had to be contacted to give her own side of the story.

Here’s what she said in an interview with Saturday Beats:

“Are you saying I shouldn’t do my work again because I am married? I am in Abuja and I came to work. I have a show here. In fact, I am in a meeting right now. I don’t have any problem with whatever he says.”

When asked if and why she abandoned her children, the mother of three said:

“I have no comment. I have a new album, let him help me and market it. It is this kind of controversy that we are looking for right now.”

The couple have been married since 2011, and have three children including a set of twins.

Canadian tourist among 10 dead in Jordan attacks

Gunmen killed 10 people including a Canadian tourist and police officers on Sunday in southern Jordan where security forces were hunting down the unidentified attackers.

The shootings took place in Karak, a tourist destination known for one of the biggest Crusader castles in the region, around 120 kilometres (70 miles) south of the capital Amman.

Jordan’s general security department said seven policemen, a female Canadian tourist and two Jordanian civilians were killed in a series of shootings.

Jordanian policemen stand guard in the vicinity of Kerak Castle where armed gunmen carried out an attack.—Reuters
It said that 27 others, including policemen and civilians, were wounded.

A separate police statement said that “a number of outlaws who committed ugly crimes this afternoon” had been killed and that security forces were combing the Crusader castle for more gunmen.

The first attack took place when a police patrol went to check on a fire that had broken out in a house in Karak, the general security department said.

“As soon as they reached the area, unknown gunmen who were inside the house opened fire on the patrol, wounding a policeman, and then fled by car,” it said in a statement carried by the official Petra news agency.

“Shortly afterwards, gunmen opened fire on another patrol without causing any casualties,” it added.

People are seen in front of the Italian hospital where some of the injured were evacuated to after an attack, in the city of Karak.—Reuters
At the same time, gunmen in the Crusader castle opened fire on the Karak police station, “wounding several policemen and passers-by” who were rushed to hospital.

“Police and security forces have surrounded the castle and its vicinity and launched an operation to hunt down the gunmen,” the statement said, adding that the search was still under way.

‘Five or six gunmen’
A senior security source said some people were trapped in a lower floor of the citadel when the gunmen took shelter there, but denied media reports that they were being held hostage.

“There are no hostages. But some people who were on a lower floor were afraid of leaving as the gunmen traded fire with the security forces,” said the source who did not wish to be identified.

He said that the gunmen were on a higher level inside the fortress.

The Jordan Tourism Board described the Karak citadel, which dates back to the 12th century and has withstood many sieges, as a “maze of stone-vaulted halls and endless passageways”.

The general security department statement said “five or six gunmen” were thought to be involved in the shootings.

However, Prime Minister Hani al-Malki, who was addressing parliament at the time of the shootings, said that “special forces and policemen are surrounding 10 gunmen holed up inside the Karak citadel”.

It was not immediately clear who was behind the shootings, but Jordan has been hit by militant attacks in the past.

Jordan is a leading member of the US-led coalition fighting the militant Islamic State (IS) group in neighbouring Iraq and Syria.

Hundreds of patients show symptoms of suspected viral disease, doctors await confirmation

KARACHI: While laboratory confirmation of suspected ‘chikungunya’ cases is still awaited, hundreds of patients with complaints of high-grade fever and severe joint pain continued to report at public and private sector hospitals in Malir, it emerged on Sunday.

According to sources, the number of suspected ‘chikungunya’ cases rose to 1,000 at a Sindh government hospital in Malir in a single day, though their number at private healthcare settings couldn’t be estimated.

Eighty staff members of the same hospital, who got infected with the disease, are recovering now. No death has so far been reported.

“The hospital has received 1,000 cases with high-grade fever and crippling joint pain today,” Dr Rehana Saba Bajwa, the medical superintendent of Sindh Government Hospital Saudabad, Malir, told Dawn.

An emergency has been declared at the 200-bed facility.

According to Dr Bajwa, patients had come from areas including Malir, Gadap, Murad Memon Goth, Pipri, Gulshan-i-Hadeed, Quaidabad, Korangi and Shah Faisal Colony. There was one case from Shahrah-i-Faisal.

“The joint pain was so severe in some case that patients couldn’t even walk,” she added.

To a question that whether these cases are of chikungunya, a viral mosquito-borne disease, she said: “We can’t say that unless diagnosis is done. A team of health experts is expected to visit us on Monday that will make arrangements for disease diagnosis.”

Patient with high-grade fever with debilitating knee pain, she said, had been coming to the hospital since the second week of November. “We thought they were of dengue and malaria. But, the situation became serious when the number of such cases rose from 500 to 1,500 in a day and 80 members of our staff that included 20 doctors also got infected.

“Their platelet level that drops in the case of dengue was normal. None of them vomited blood that we see in severe dengue cases,” she explained while requesting authorities to launch a massive cleanliness campaign in the city especially in the suburb areas.

The staff at the Al Mustafa Welfare Society Hospital, a private health facility in Malir, has also been receiving patients with high grade fever and acute joint pain since last month.

“We don’t have the facility to diagnose an unknown viral disease. Patients are being recommended to take paracetamol and they show improvement in some days,” a doctor said on condition of anonymity, adding that no government official had visited the facility.

Director health services Dr Abdul Waheed Panhwar, who has visited the Sindh government hospital in Saudabad, said: “It will take some time before the health department officially declares what has caused illness. The number of infected people is definitely high.”

According to him, patients are reporting with symptoms that are usually not observed in the case of dengue. “The joint pain is so crippling that they can’t move their lower limbs. The disease is affecting people of all age groups.”

The province, he said, had good number of experts and, hopefully, help from Islamabad wouldn’t be needed to identify the virus infecting people.

“Though this disease has been reported from regional countries like India and Bangladesh, there is no documented case of chikungunya in Pakistan,” he said.

Meanwhile, the Pakistan Medical Association has called upon the government once again to set up a state-of-the-art virology laboratory in the province to make prompt diagnosis in cases of unknown infections.

“The Indian city of Delhi has seen an outbreak of chikungunya this year, where some people have also died of the disease. So, there is an immediate need for preventive measures. Besides, a virology lab is need of the hour, which the PMA has been demanding for many years now,” Pakistan Medical Association sectary general Dr Qaiser Sajjad said.

What is chikungunya
According to the World Health Organisation’s (WHO) [website][1], chikungunya is a viral disease transmitted to humans by infected mosquitoes. It causes fever and severe joint pain.

Other symptoms include muscle pain, headache, nausea, fatigue and rash.

Joint pain is often debilitating and can vary in duration. There is no cure for the disease. Treatment is focused on relieving the symptoms. The proximity of mosquito breeding sites to human habitation is a significant risk factor for chikungunya.

The disease occurs in Africa, Asia and the Indian subcontinent. In recent decades mosquito vectors of chikungunya have spread to Europe and the Americas. In 2007, disease transmission was reported for the first time in a localised outbreak in north-eastern Italy, the website added.

Outbreaks have since been recorded in France and Croatia.

Most patients recover fully in two to three weeks, but in some cases joint pain may persist for several months, or even years.

Occasional cases of eye, neurological and heart complications have been reported, as well as gastrointestinal complaints, the website says.

According to it, serious complications are not common, but in older people, the disease can contribute to the cause of death.

Often symptoms in infected individuals are mild and the infection may go unrecognised, or be misdiagnosed in areas where dengue occurs.

The name ‘chikungunya’ derives from a word in the Kimakonde language, meaning “to become contorted”, and describes the stooped appearance of sufferers with joint pain.

Key facts
Transmitted to humans by infected mosquitoes.
Causes fever and severe joint pain. Other symptoms include muscle pain, headache, nausea, fatigue and rash.
Joint pain is often debilitating and can vary in duration.
Shares some clinical signs with dengue, and can be misdiagnosed as dengue in areas where dengue is common.
There is no cure for the disease. Treatment relieves symptoms.
The proximity of mosquito breeding sites to human habitation is a significant risk factor for chikungunya.
Disease occurs in Africa, Asia and the Indian subcontinent.

Girl narrates how she was dumped for being a virgin

Hehe! Since when did virginity become a crime?

Twitter user @CanyeWext narrated how she was dumped for being a virgin
According to a Twitter user identified as Emo Girl @Canyewext, she got the shock of her life after her ex-boyfriend dumped her for being a virgin.

Narrating her story in a series of tweets, she wrote:

“Got a text from an ex after 4 years.. you men are confusing. lol how my relationship with him ended was the most confused moment of my life.This guy chased me for months. I was really into him but my hard girl reputation couldn’t be tempered with back then.I finally fell and we started dating. I used to have this really wild, bad girl appearance then but deep down inside.. it was the opposite.

We were dating.. kissing and stuff never really had time or opportunity for the secks because my parents didn’t give me space to shine. Till the day i decided to sleep over at his place and get diqed, whether my parents kill me or not the next day, man must die one day.

I was excited about that night..I really liked that guy, i didn’t even think about the trouble i’ll be in i just wanted to die by that p*nis. He was excited too and we started making out and touching each other’s prr….. You know what i mean.

It was now time to put his distin inside and he tried to put it in and i made noises like i was in pain and he quickly stopped and got up. He got up looking at me shocked and betrayed like i just executed his family. then he asked “are you a virgin” I said “yes”.

Man, the disappointment on his face. He had that look your dad would have if he just found out you secretly sold the family house. He helped me look for my pant and other belongings and asked me to go home. I was confused Af.

He switched his number off that night ,And the next day i went to see him.. His sister told me he travelled that morning. I then got a break up text 2 days later. you guys. I WAS DUMPED FOR BEING A VIRGIN. I don’t understand this life at all.

Most painful thing is i never said i didn’t want the secks. people are born virgins. why was he disappointed i was one. Did he think i would not catch up fast. I swear to God i’m a great learner. Look at my skills now.

I didn’t kick against getting my hymen torn apart by him.. Shouldn’t he be glad he was about to be the first? i was really really confused. And after four years he is now texting me ‘what’s going on with you, it’s been ages’ Bruh, YOU ARE MAD.”

Hmmm! Wahala dey o!

Otedelo Giving His Mother A On The Lips

Awwww! This just proves that mothers are and will remain number one in a man’s life.

Femi Otedola kisses his mum on the lips
Mothers always have a strong bond with their sons and these photos of Nigerian Billionaire Femi Otedola, brushing a kiss across his mother’s lips, show how strong their bond is.

His mother known as Lady Doja, wore a beautiful smile as she posed beside her very successful son when he visited her.

Otedola happens to be the chairman of Forte Oil PLC and the father to popular Nigerian female DJ, Florence ‘Cuppy’ Otedola.

Laugh Out Loud “LOL”